Rudeness

I have a big problem when adults are rude. I dont understand why if someone has more than one kid or a kid at all that you should just assum that they are that persons??? And better yet i have a problem with people being racist, i am not saying that you cant ,but i honestly do you think you need to express that every single day every single minute every single second...? I was taught many lessons as i was growing up and i plan to pass them on to Sophia and even try to teach my Husband some .maybe...
 1. Nothing nice to say dont say it
 2. You do not act a fool in public ever!! .. i.e( school, in a store,,)
 3. Disrespectfull in any way was not tolerated
 4.Dont judge
5. last but not least
ALWAYS.. respect your elders ,they have been here a lot longer than you.
  If there was someone comming out/in a door , you held it.  Someone stranded on the side of the road you stopped. If you saw someone struggling with food to the car help load it even if you dont work there..  "My dad would ask me, Britt you know why I did that helped that person?", (he could tell by the look on my face that was a no)he would say" Beacuse one day that may be me wishing i had some help." I learned these things by mostly just seeing how caring and respecfull my father was. Some of the numbered i was told,, but others  I just grew to have that sese of responiabilty as a growing  human being.  Now my dad was not a racist but he was , let me explain. My father had a problem with ALL colors,  beacuse he said "there were two types to every race just like two parts to every storie". He then showed me the ones that care about life and what they ment and the ones that didnt . My dads best friends where hispanic,and black. Then again my dad never met a stranger either.. I to this day have a great respect for them . There are many things that they are blessed with that i wish i had... and I have a mixed-race family my niece is hispanic along with my sister in law , i have a brother in law that is African-American, and i have a sister in law ,well not anymore but.. i still love and care for her so my other sister in law is hispanic as well.AND non of this has ever bothered me one bit. I currently teach sophia how to speak spanish,english ,and sign. I think it will get her futher in life..  I was told everybody has overcome a battle in life some point in time no matter how small or how big, just like you so everyone deserved the right to be acknowledge politey. and then at the very end , God loves us all the same way we are all the same to him.
   Now all this was brought to mind beacuse i watch a little boy that is African-American and on my way to the bank today with my child and him i was recieving the most hatefull glares and so on,, just beacuse some one figured ..better yet assumed that i was some young kid that wasnt raised right teenage mother that most likly didnt have job and had been knocked up and had been a "N" lover ...... AND I HATE IT !!!! even if i had been that would have been my choice, but that is not the point ,, the point is we are never going to get anywhere in this world like this.. Some wonder why all the young childeren act like fools,, my guess is there parents acted like that are dont care if they act that way... I am not saying that everyone should do everything the same but for gosh sakes can we at least teach some respect? or even a little manners is all i wonder??? I just dont get it... Life goes on ,, and sometimes the same wayy ...... :(...
  Anyway that happend with about 5 cars that passed me,plus the teller at the bank.,, and as i am thinking to my self i turn on the radio and Sophia and I listen to 102. the bear most times(when daddy not in the car) and I had the window cracked getting some cool air,, And that is when it hit me... I started thinking about my dad one of our songs came on and then (those sense smell,heart all warm, you get when you having a great memory comes along  like its like Dejvu,) I felt like a little girl in the pasanger seat thinking that this is the way life would be when i got older,,, life is great and then that is when i remember all the stuff i have already mentiond, I once again told my self that I knew sophia would learn all the same things, weather she wanted to care and use them would be up to her ,, after she moves out of my house. I am just thinkfull everyday that i was discaplined that way and that I care so much about it ,, Reminds me why I beilve the way I do ,, I like to think Maybe that maybe Iam changing the world one person at a time. Then again I am sort of closed minded in the way that I think it should be this way all the time..!!!!  So for now this is it.. another will come promise ..until next time ....Life Goes On
  p.s. If you are wondering Yes IAM the one that will pop my kid in the middle of the store if they are acting a fool, and if I need to I will walk right out of that store dragging my Child.. (did that last week) i knew how to do that beacuse my Mother taught me that one!!!!!!!!!! :)